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I've been seeing a girl (Amie) for the past two months. I'm 22 and she's 19. I'm a virgin, and she's not.
We have fun together and kiss and hug a lot. I want to have sex with her, and I'm sure she's willing. But I don't want to make a fool of myself the first time. So I'm afraid to have sex with her even though I want to. And I think we're both starting to feel uncomfortable not going farther physically.
My best guy friend tells me to just do what feels natural. But I can't even picture what would feel natural, let alone do that.
I like Amie and want to take our relationship farther physically. And I also want to feel capable of having sex with other girls in the future.
I also feel like there's something wrong with me, because I never hear about other guys having the same challenge. I have a lot of self-confidence in most other situations in life, but this is really bothering me.
Is there anything practical I can do? And am I unusual for feeling this way.
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