New Online Advice Column For Singles and Couples
Energize, Heal and Celebrate Your Love Life
- Do you want to feel some excitement again, but aren’t sure how to get it?
- Or maybe you're in a bad relationship and are thinking of breaking up?
- Are you single and looking for a good, healthy love relationship, but find that you make poor choices for yourself?
SOMETIMES YOU JUST NEED
A LITTLE EXTRA HELP
But when you do, you want experienced professional help. Which is why...for over 25 years, thousands of people just like you have come to me for effective guidance.
Have you ever wished you had a psychologist close at hand... just to get some expert advice on love and relationships, without committing to long-term, expensive weekly therapy sessions?
Of course, you could always talk to a good friend. Problem is... sometimes a friend can’t be objective, no matter how much he/she cares about you.
ANONYMOUSLY AND FROM THE PRIVACY OF YOUR OWN HOME
You can tell me about your problem from the privacy of your own home... while your identity is completely protected and you remain anonymous...
ONLINE ADVICE COLUMN FOR LOVE
It doesn’t matter whether you are looking for love as a single or trying to find it again as a couple. Send your Question to Gloria and get some answers.
Maybe you’re using the service because it’s free....or maybe because you can remain anonymous or maybe for the convenience....it doesn’t matter. Whatever the reason, you canGET HELP HERE.
Send Gloria a Message Now
How Does it Work?
- Sign up as a member--THEN check your e-mail for the confirmation e-mail.
- Follow Instructions to confirm your e-mail membership.
- Read Q & A from others about their relationships; or
- Login online and submit your own question to Gloria on line.
- In most cases, you will receive an answer within 48 hours.
NO PSYCHOBABBLE HERE
Advice on this site is direct, pragmatic and based on over 25,000 hours helping people to have more love and less stress in their relationships. It's all about what works and what doesn't....when you want a GREAT love life.
TRY ME OUT.
Okay, why should you trust me? ... just because I say I can help?
That’s why I’m giving advice for free, so you have a chance to try me out... see if you like my style and my advice. Send your own question or view some of the current LOVE QUESTIONS on the Current Q&A page.
So what’s the catch you say? There really isn’t one.
Then why am I willing to do this? Do a free ONLINE ADVICE COLUMN?
Because I love helping people solve relationship problems. I am a people-problem solver. That’s what I do. I believe that I was given my talent for a reason and I am meant to use that gift to help others.
Many years ago, I changed careers, when I discovered my knack for knowing what people need to do to get unstuck in their relationships, whether they are singles, or part of couple.
In the past, I became so fed up and frustrated dealing with health insurance companies... that I left practice for a couple of years. They seem primarily concerned with denying treatment to patients, in order to improve the bottom line of their companies.
That was until I figured out how to make my living helping people without the involvement of the insurance companies.
That’s how “JUST ASK GLORIA" was born... a website where you can submit your own questions anonymously to get expert advice on a relationship problem, whether you are SINGLE, part of a COUPLE. You can access to both the current questions and the Q & A archive on this website.
I am committed to protecting your privacy. Your email address will never be shared with anyone else nor sold to anyone. The only information I request when you submit a question is your name and a state. Your email address is only required so I can respond to your question.
And yes: it is ONLY me who answers these questions. You most likely will receive a response within 24-48 hours, depending on how busy the site is at any given time.
It is my goal to answer all questions, but that may not always be possible. Even if I can’t answer your question right away, you will find an archive of questions and answers that will build over time.
AND MEMBERSHIP IS FREE
Okay, once again? Why am I doing this?
You see, I believe that I can help people improve their LOVE LIVES without their having to commit to spend high dollars or long-term therapy.
I have been helping to solve people problems and improve the lives of others since 1981, as a psychologist and family therapist. With over 25,000 client hours, there isn’t much I haven’t seen or heard. However, if I can’t answer your question, I will refer you to other resources.
My mission is to help you Energize, Heal and Celebrate your LOVE relationships.
OTHER RESOURCES FOR YOUR LOVE LIFE
There is so much to learn about yourself and the man or woman you love. My goal is to teach you to what I know. So I will create and recommend many resources to you, including hypnosis for love.
If your are serious about improving your self or your LOVE relationships, you are the kind of person I want to help.
I will choose to post certain questions, so that others can benefit from your learning too. I am committed to protecting your privacy. I will never publish anything other than your first name and your State.
Now that I’ve told you what JUST ASK GLORIA is, let me tell you what it is not.
NOT A BLOG. Others cannot comment on your problem or question. It’s not a public forum because you need to have your privacy respected and know that you’re getting expert advice.
NOT A PLACE TO VENT. Nothing will be published on this site that uses profane language or demeans others. Every e-mailed question comes to me and me alone.
NOT THERAPY. Short-term advice and self-help suggestions should not be considered to be the same as therapy, where you see the therapist in person or talk on the telephone on a regular basis.
There are other services on this site where you can have telephone and/or e-mail therapy with me for a fee-paid monthly membership.
I will feature certain questions and responses up front on the site and change them frequently, so check back often to see the ‘new stuff.’
NOT JUST ANOTHER DEAR ABBY
This is much more than a Dear Abby service. The answers on this site come from on a professional, highly trained, experienced, licensed psychologist. Learn more about Gloria.
Although this is not therapy, I will treat members of this site with the same respect and professionalism that I use in my private practice.
Don't wait too long. Get help now, before it grows into a bigger problem.
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Current Question
I am 47 years old, have never been married, and would really like to be in a loving relationship. My problem is that I really thought that I had finally found "Mr. Right" and now I'm not so sure.
Pat and I are both dancers and met each other at a dance. We were friends for several months -- dancing, talking, and sometimes going dancing for hours. As we spent more and more time together, I realized that I was beginning to have romantic feelings for Pat and I believed that he was having the same feelings for me. On a weekend camping trip, Pat and I were intimate and I was thrilled that we were now committed to each other.
A few weeks later, Pat told me that he really was "not ready" for a committed relationship¦ but still wanted to remain friends. I was devastated and did not go out dancing for several months. Finally, I went on anti-depressants and made my way back to the dance community. Pat and I still went dancing a couple of times. However, I would not dance with him -- since that was just too intimate and painful for me.
Photo Credit: Photo by RoozA few months later, Pat told me that he missed our times together and would like to give our relationship "another chance." After much thought, I said OK -- but that there would be no intimacy since I just couldn't go down that road again. He was surprised and changed his mind again.
It's now been several months and I'm doing fairly well -- well enough to now dance with Pat again. But I still love him.
Do you think that I should listen to Pat -- and try again with a relationship that includes intimacy?
Thanks so much!
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One of the things I love about Gloria is that she listens with her heart. She asks me questions most friends would not ask--like how do you feel about this? Most friends tell you what they would do, rather than asking how you feel.
When I want the truth, I ask Gloria. Sometimes, as we all know, we would rather hear what we want to hear, and we will go around asking everyone, until someone tells us that. And even though we all know that the truth hurts sometimes, I can rely on Gloria to be open and honest with me. She is a true gem and I am so fortunate to have been blessed with her friendship.
~E.T., Pennsylvania
